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枫下家园 / 人到中年 / "TRUST BUT VERIFY" - 你是先 TRUST 还是先 VERIFY ？WHY ？
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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要征婚？
-coolmao(酷猫*Z-ha-dum);
2012-2-8
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嗯，征那啥友。
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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Verify before you trust. But for someone who wouldn't hurt you, why bother? 何PIA 之有？
-mabn(月光下的逃兵);
2012-2-8
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how do you know somebody would not hurt?
-c__wang(倾城);
2012-2-8
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you loooking for tyra ?
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2012-2-8
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I do miss her, actually.
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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you are
-shenzhen(nemo);
2012-2-8
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I would trust first, because it would be easier for me to build up relationship and to get information I need to verify it.
-iou(笨);
2012-2-8
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statement is from President Regan
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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oh, thanks, i thought was from tyra. ronald was really handsome, huh ?
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2012-2-8
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not only that. he knows how to 用人
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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oh, thanks for letting me know, I guess to answer your question, I will stick with mine understanding then.
-iou(笨);
2012-2-8
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10-4
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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what does 10-4 mean?
-iou(笨);
2012-2-8
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coask
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2012-2-8
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http://spiffy.ci.uiuc.edu/~kline/Stuff/ten-codes.html
-c__wang(倾城);
2012-2-8
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thanks, learnt something new
-iou(笨);
2012-2-8
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shot, i am old and cannot memorize all those codes without paying significant efforts
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2012-2-8
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如果你 FA YU late 的话，就还很年轻。 - 调戏小试。
-c__wang(倾城);
2012-2-8
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ok, i 暗爽到内伤
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2012-2-8
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Trust first. If this is somebody I can trust, I won't even bother to verify; otherwise verify is necessary too.
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-2-8
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how would you know somebody "I can trust"?
-c__wang(倾城);
2012-2-8
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I believe my feelings, maybe it's not right in most cases. But to me, without trust in between, there will be no relationship at all.
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-2-8
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Too simple, too native, LOL
-dv2011(五龙潜处野云闲);
2012-2-8
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OK, I agree I am naive. That is me, born with it. :)
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-2-8
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Oh, No. Sooner or later, you may get hurt
-dv2011(五龙潜处野云闲);
2012-2-8
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hope not ~~~~~~ but thank you indeed for your kind reminder :)
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-2-8
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支持一下。
-c1xwy(洪兴罩俺去战斗);
2012-2-8
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谢谢! ^_^
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-2-8
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又内伤一个，哈哈
-dv2011(五龙潜处野云闲);
2012-2-8
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原来和你一样。。碰了几次头以后，学乖了。。呵呵。。无奈啊。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2012-2-8
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还是碰的太少。碰傻了，就没有烦恼了。。。
-dv2011(五龙潜处野云闲);
2012-2-8
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傻了也没办法，觉的有些东西是天生的，只能祈祷了。
-c1xwy(洪兴罩俺去战斗);
2012-2-8
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倒也谈不上烦恼，只是不再像以前那么轻易相信、轻易交心了。。呵呵。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2012-2-8
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你长大了， LOL......
-dv2011(五龙潜处野云闲);
2012-2-8
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嗯, 明白, 世界很复杂 ~~~~~~ 庆幸的是我的生活至今为止还算是很简单的, 希望今后也不要太为难我 :-) ~~~~
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-2-8
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Here is my understanding ( need to be verified too :-) ). I trust you because I believe you are honest and you won't lie to me on purpose .At the same time, it is necessary to verify what you say and/or do, since there could be something untrue or you could be mislead by disguised "facts".
-hhyang(哈哈羊);
2012-2-8
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you will still believe the "will" then check out if a doer does what he or she says or a sayer does what he or she does.
-c__wang(倾城);
2012-2-8
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I trust people's saying before what they say is verified. I say to people what I have done and discuss with them a way or several ways to verify what I have said.
-hhyang(哈哈羊);
2012-2-8
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oh, i trust YOU- the person, but need to verify the THING you say or you do, since you could be mistaken.
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2012-2-8
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trust sb but verify sth?
-c__wang(倾城);
2012-2-8
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thats my understanding what the old actor said
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2012-2-8
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Oaky, this is my final thought. Never trust anyone, and make a habit to verify everything instantly.
-dv2011(五龙潜处野云闲);
2012-2-8
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Even between a couple for everything? ~~~~~oh NO ~~~~~~~~would you feel comfortable if you are being verified on everything? I won't
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2012-2-8
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It may be not everything for God's sake in between married couples, but clearly, a lots of things should be consider before putting into your account.
-dv2011(五龙潜处野云闲);
2012-2-8
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先有鸡还是先有蛋？
-baalinca(不记得了);
2012-2-8
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Why do you trust others, I'd rather BELIEVE others first. when you trust someone, you assuming he/she can be trusted in your root mind, that's a wrong direction, BELIEVE others first, this is the right way to deal with。。。
-noproblem(密西洒家);
2012-2-8
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嗯，这比那劳什子的DANCE OF HOURS容易理解得多了。
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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怀疑你根本没仔细看那个舞蹈，看得洒家心花怒放。。。
-noproblem(密西洒家);
2012-2-8
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场上人太多，忒晃眼，就放弃了。
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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Now that I trust you are even a dance critic.
-thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$);
2012-2-8
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Believe me or not? I don't deserve your trust。。。
-noproblem(密西洒家);
2012-2-8
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Not. I trust you are indeed a music lover and now a dance critic. As far as other aspects of life is concerned, I have no clue.
-thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$);
2012-2-8
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I trust that you are indeed a music lover. No doubt about it whatsoever.
-thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$);
2012-2-8
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用人而疑?
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2012-2-8
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不赞成。
-c__wang(C);
2012-2-8
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都太喜欢动脑了，直觉直觉~~
-garden91(深蓝);
2012-2-8
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