Is it that hard to understand? I don

枫下家园 / 幸福家庭 / 我看大家就别分析了。有些杀人犯恐怕是基因里的东西在作怪。所谓人本善，或人本恶都不靠谱：有人生来为羊，有人生来为狼。杀人很多时候和被杀的人一点关系都没有。自己长阅历学会认清羊人或狼人，知道自我保护才是正事。 -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 {132} (#6936236@0)
按正常羊人的正常逻辑，是无论如何不能分析出狼人需要杀人的原因的：因为本来就没有原因。想吃羊的狼总会会想出羊的不对的，是应该被吃掉的。

不同意。难道杀人犯还有血统论？ -majorhomedepot(马甲后的炮); 2011-9-22 (#6936284@0)

absolutely.. it is in the genes... someone are born criminals..when the technology is so advanced down the road, we could wipe out crime gene from human race...or add it to soldiers... -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 (#6936295@0)

B.S...懦弱是后天的，打几次架就知道了。一看你就是个窝囊货。 -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936299@0)

羊和羊也打架，但不会杀了对方。 -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936643@0)

很难想象一个把自己定位成羊的男人会有什么出息。有些人的气质和百年前的洗衣铺的猪尾巴没有什么改变。 -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-23 (#6936683@0)

define "出息"...capable of love and being loved, to me, is 有出息..... -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936691@0)

love is human natural emotions, every homo sapien is capable of it. that is 出息？ lmao. you speak like a 12 year old girl just finish her Readers Digest. -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-23 (#6936707@0)

Is it that hard to understand? I don't find anything that I said was out of ordinary - and I trust a vast majority people think that way.... if you find it odd, hmm....what makes you so cynical ? -mikesmith(老猫); 08:06 (#6936709@0) reply more -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936711@0)
你把爱想得太简单了。爱的能力和被爱的能力也许是世界上最难拥有的。 -gszym(有话好好说); 2011-9-23 (#6936788@0)

probably in his definition, love = sex.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936924@0)

OMG! 一时清楚一时糊涂还是意识清楚故意糊涂？ -thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$); 2011-9-22 (#6936310@0)

it is getting late.. and now i started speaking from my heart without thinking too much.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 (#6936317@0)

酷爱你的童真。早点儿睡觉，明天会更清醒。 -thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$); 2011-9-22 (#6936328@0)

going to bed.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 (#6936349@0)

强奸犯肯定有。 -i3i3(胖子); 2011-9-22 (#6936304@0)

老实讲，如果我老婆把孩子带走，１８岁以前不许见面。山穷水尽谈判官司都无果的话。。。呵呵，不知道我会弄出点啥事儿来。绝对不会坐以待毙就是了。 -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936294@0)

that's non sense...women can say whatever they want...that's what they are...being a man is to listen...calm, but just listen..because that's what we are..when fighting with a woman - a man stops being a man... -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 (#6936297@0)

老猫，整天在坛子里一群半老娘们儿前面卖萌摆台型，有意思吗？ -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936306@0)

i speak my mind...that's what -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 (#6936312@0)

doubt it. -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936316@0)

呵呵，这个评语好！---卖萌摆台型 -bvcxz(vcxz); 2011-9-23 (#6938687@0)

physically fight with women is what low-lives do. give up your children like garbage is not any better. -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936315@0)

some woman, when they are mad, they will say whatever comes to their mind at the time... man, on the other hand, is different..understanding this, and holding woman to those words when they are mad, is not only stupid, but rather being womanish ourselves -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 (#6936330@0)

We are saying 2 different things. I am not bothered by what women say, but if you are not bothered seeing your children taken away, you are hardly human. -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936335@0)

and was it a fact that the court had ruled the case that way? or it was only in some crazy people's mind as an excuse to justify something so horrific ? -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-22 (#6936342@0)

Just answer this, don't dance around: WHAT IF THE COURT RULES THAT YOU WILL NOT SEE YOUR CHILDREN FOR THE NEXT 15 YEARS? And it is final, no more appealing. Straight answer, no empty talks please. -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936353@0)

and if this is the court ruling, you will kill the kids' mom? and let the kids lose both parents all of a sudden?? if i were in this situation, i will leave all i have: money, house, whatever.... to my kids..and their mom..because -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 {278} (#6936645@0)
i must have done something terribly wrong to deserve such a ruling..

but at that point, it was not about me anymore.. it was about how i can ensure the maximum protection and minimum disruption to my kid's...if money is all i can give at that point, that's what i will do..

接着表演。。。没有半老徐娘鼓掌？！ -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-23 (#6936679@0)

i am what i am.... the rest is left for others to judge.. i could care less. -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936696@0)

the question is: are you sure? or maybe you are, because you are a saint, thats what you are playing here,right? -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-23 {59} (#6936697@0)
because 99% of us ordinary human can't be sure who we are.

i am pretty damn sure.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936698@0)

right mother Teresa. -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-23 (#6936704@0)

Is it that hard to understand? I don't find anything that I said was out of ordinary - and I trust a vast majority people think that way.... if you find it odd, hmm....what makes you so cynical ? -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936709@0)

说这些没用的东西，连儿子都不要的人，还有没有一点脾气？ -bvcxz(vcxz); 2011-9-23 (#6938714@0)

如果老公一边暴打太太，一边说“试试看也一样。不让我见孩子，哼，杀了你都有可能。”那么，同归于尽吧。一命抵一命。 -1030(lolo8); 2011-9-22 {58} (#6936404@0)
为了孩子，命都可以不要，不管是爸爸还是妈妈，都是这样的吧。

所以说，孩子是核武器，用来互相威胁乃至使用，双方都不会有好结果。聪明女人和男人都该懂这个道理，给人留后路就是给自己留后路。男人打老婆是很可耻的，但是 -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 {126} (#6936415@0)
女人用孩子来报复，也高尚不到哪里去。

一个背景，阅历，智慧都缺乏的邮寄新娘，玩这么大的核武器，太失算了。有些人可要引以为戒。

所以要互相尊重互相体谅，尽量往乐观的地方想。不要随便发火，孩子看着呢。 -1030(lolo8); 2011-9-22 (#6936422@0)
性格决定命运。很对啊。 -1030(lolo8); 2011-9-22 (#6936425@0)
今天饭桌上我老公对孩子说加拿大人喜欢看冰球是因为比赛可以打架。 -1030(lolo8); 2011-9-22 {168} (#6936439@0)
成年人啊球迷啊都心知肚明。可是孩子才多大啊，很懵懂的。我赶紧认真纠正----冰球是运动，讲的是体育精神，不是打架。现在那么多运动员都受伤很严重就是因为打架啊冲撞啊。冷汗！！

我把不赞同你的教育方法，应该正确地教育孩子如何看待现实的残酷性 -alnd(alnd); 2011-9-22 (#6936499@0)

你的孩子很有福气！！ -1030(lolo8); 2011-9-23 {594} (#6936566@0)
不过我也坚持我的自己的。我不认为可以随便把自己的想法对小朋友说，小朋友才上小学2，3年级呢。我们可以讨论，但是我不支持在小朋友还没形成自己的世界观的时候，就胡乱下定义，比如看冰球就是看打架，如果是那样世界杯啊奥林匹克啊都不要举行了。

我不希望小朋友认为，哦，大人说什么就是什么，要学会尽量全面的不同角度看问题。

如果今天我老公说，加拿大人喜欢冰球，是因为这是一项很有趣的运动，但是呢现在很多运动员不遵守规则，不合理冲撞，导致受伤。。。。。。。。我不会认真。

也许他们听不懂什么叫合理冲撞，也不知道冰球规则，也许现在的世界很不一样，这要他们自己体会。大人的话只是看法，在说之前，想想，再想想。

没觉得技术移民中的男人把孩子看做命,基本上离婚后孩子都归女的.但非技术移民和古代的男人离婚后孩子都归男人. -3662930(aveeno); 2011-9-22 (#6936452@0)

一针见血。 -wincity(红卫兵); 2011-9-22 (#6936324@0)

血水是什么颜色的？ -thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$); 2011-9-22 (#6936332@0)

保护。。。为什么有些人就不知道攻击，只知道防御呢？200年的弱势心态跑到DNA里去了？不至于吧，人类２５０万年了吧？２００年算啥呀。。。 -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-22 (#6936333@0)

只要攻击就有可能也殃及到自己啊，虽然把别人打败了，但自己也受伤了。还不如直接预防不要有冲突的好。而且一旦不管不顾的厮打起来，好人是打不过坏人的，坏人可以无所不用其极。比如牟把胡杀了。当她们闹家庭矛盾的时候，有谁想到会是这样的结局吗？ -rainyday01(雨季不再来); 2011-9-22 {340} (#6936490@0)
如果胡知道她和牟的冲突有可能引来杀身之祸，如果胡的父母知道自己的女儿有可能丢掉性命，那他们宁可什么抚养费，房子身份都不要，有什么比命更重要的。

如果牟的父母事先预想到自己的儿子犯下杀人大罪，毁掉一生，他们还会鼓动着儿子儿媳吵架，争利益吗？

如果被强盗用刀逼着问要钱还是要命，大多数人都会要命的。可惜很多人不到最后的关头总也不能分辨清楚。

+100 -wincity(红卫兵); 2011-9-23 (#6936682@0)

Feeding the flame. -thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$); 2011-9-23 (#6936690@0)

扫帚不到，灰尘不会自己跑掉。俺懒得扫地，但是至少可以给扫地的人加油。 -wincity(红卫兵); 2011-9-23 (#6939211@0)

Excellent. 恭请版主们“黎明即起，洒扫庭除”，常常把论坛打扫打扫. -thornthorn($oOHoly MolyOo$); 2011-9-23 (#6939278@0)

当好人是给人看的，每个人心底都是个坏人，不过是分坏的方法而已，这就是西方社会的精髓，基督为什么要救赎我们？还不明白吗？guo国人 -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-23 {74} (#6936689@0)
善于演戏可以理解，但千万别假戏真做，很搞笑地把自己变成了个善法无边的神啊。

being a good man is for oneself's sake... finding inner peace is more rewarding than anything else... -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936701@0)

inner peace dont need to be found, only appendages and accessories need to be found. -baihe25(胡阿友); 2011-9-23 (#6936702@0)

有些母亲把自己报复性强的性格教给孩子，要孩子学点防身的武功，你打我一巴掌我就砍你一刀，想没想过你砍人一刀阿差老黑会拿把枪出来杀你，老警也不会因为人先打你孩子就不追纠你孩子的那一刀。 -abc2011(nonono); 2011-9-23 (#6936831@0)

是的，看过犯罪心理学的东西，还有对很多重刑犯的调查研究，确实有关。 -rainyday01(雨季不再来); 2011-9-22 (#6936372@0)

是有bad seeds那种天生没有concience的人, 不过很多可能是抑郁症的结果, 比如家庭中的长期吵架等等都可能酿成悲剧...前几天看到中国那个杀了全家的人被处决了, 临死的时候要求不要和家人葬一起,害怕死后还要吵... -jesse_dd(bigfishboom); 2011-9-23 (#6937090@0)

是啊，除了天生的基因，还有就是从小的成长的环境了。那个药家鑫案还有这个牟钟鸣，都是从小父亲特别严厉，父子关系紧张。 -rainyday01(雨季不再来); 2011-9-23 (#6937217@0)

多一些思考，少一些幻想，没准儿关键时刻能救自己一命。 -hhyang(哈哈羊); 2011-9-23 (#6936744@0)

Agreed.. reasoning with someone unreasonable could be just a waste of time..or could be much worse.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6936746@0)

很多情况下确实如此。想杀人的人总能找到一个借口去杀。 -gszym(有话好好说); 2011-9-23 (#6936784@0)
你一定还没见过批着羊皮的狼。你听过还是见过批着羊皮的狼。 -waterbaby(雨菲菲); 2011-9-23 (#6937154@0)

well, i could be one of them.. you never know.. -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6937158@0)

过去有过XYY染色体暴力倾向的争论，也许随着基因学科进展会有新发现 -frank8s(frank); 2011-9-23 (#6937196@0)

我是绝对相信“犯罪“基因说 -mikesmith(老猫); 2011-9-23 (#6937245@0)

我也有这样直接感觉，观察动物也有类似情况。但是目前科技水平还不能做出结论 -frank8s(frank); 2011-9-23 (#6937324@0)
国与国的法律不同，有的国家通奸的女人是罪犯要被处死，加国的法律却不认为是犯罪，同样一个女人，同样的基因，用犯罪基因如何来解释？ -abc2011(nonono); 2011-9-23 (#6938861@0)

这不是抬杠吗，通奸算犯罪全世界没几个国家还有这样的法律。杀人是犯罪，应该是所有法律中都有的吧 -rainyday01(雨季不再来); 2011-9-23 (#6939272@0)

非常支持你的观点！以前看一真实新闻, 一个10岁小男孩, 因为一点小事没有得到邻居小女孩答应, 不满, 怀恨在心, 拿利斧劈死了小女孩. 这个男孩, 绝对是天生基因有问题的一类. 那个杀妻案的男人一样！基因有问题！！！狼要吃羊, 什么理由都是借口, -uasofunny(south); 2011-9-23 {250} (#6937542@0)
正常男人再怎么狠都不会轻易去杀人。

人都有失手冲动，但像牟这样，杀了人还没有丝毫反悔之心的，真的是少有！！！比其它杀人案性质更恶劣。牟的基因绝对是天生坏种。

遇到这样的人，远离！那个被杀的妻，第一次被家暴就应该认清这种男人的本质，离开这样的男人！

偏执的人往往用一个例子就能证明一个理论。偏执就是杀人犯共性。 -shadowman(Bright Shadow); 2011-9-23 (#6939220@0)

有道理！ -uasofunny(south); 2011-9-23 (#6939282@0)

偏执是所有杀人犯的共性，LZ有这个基因 -shadowman(Bright Shadow); 2011-9-23 (#6939223@0)

@Baltimore

Is it that hard to understand? I don't find anything that I said was out of ordinary - and I trust a vast majority people think that way.... if you find it odd, hmm....what makes you so cynical ?

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