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放弃是美丽的无奈(2)

有时候放弃是无奈的,但未必是令人沮丧的。对我来说,放弃是美丽的无奈,是淡淡的忧伤上的解脱。因为我努力了,我不会自责。

努力奋斗是我们中国人的优良传统。但是有谁知道,有时候退而求其次也需要很大的勇气。我问自己:人是不是可以平平凡凡的,快快乐乐的过得很好呢?

我准备接收另一份平凡轻松甚至有一点底下(从中国人传统的观念)的工作。希望我能够有那样的功底,承受平凡的快乐吧。

不论你成功了或失败了,只要你尽了你的努力,你就应该得到尊重。不要太难为你自己了。如果你也看不起你自己,试问谁会看得起你。我说,放弃是美丽的无奈,但也未必是失败吧?
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  • 工作学习 / 事业与工作 / 放弃是美丽的无奈
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛一年多了,我什么方法都试过了。专业知识从高中到大学温习过(有点夸张),从补学加拿大专业条例到最流行的hardware software。从自学到考证。英文提高到听radio,TV完全没问题,专业词汇也本地化。上过两个找工workshop(还拿了两个certificate,不过谁敢拿那个见人),简历也本地化(对应每个职位的改)。

    今天收到消息,(不是原文,括号内是我的imagination)“We have selected a person with exactly the same experience in the same industrial. (He has Canadian experience by the way, but that is not relevant). You are one of the best of 4 people who were invited for the second round interview. We are very impressed by......however, ......(there are more people coming from around the world, and, there are always much much less positions than applicants. We are aware that you are all experts in the field, but we don't need so many experts in the short future here in Canada...) We thank you for... keep in file...and good luck to your future....

    有时候放弃是无奈的,但未必是令人沮丧的。对我来说,放弃是美丽的无奈,是淡淡的忧伤上的解脱。因为我努力了,我不会自责......(to be continued)更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • Which offer u finally selected? :P
    • Never give up. You are very close to your goal.
    • 放弃是美丽的无奈(2)
      有时候放弃是无奈的,但未必是令人沮丧的。对我来说,放弃是美丽的无奈,是淡淡的忧伤上的解脱。因为我努力了,我不会自责。

      努力奋斗是我们中国人的优良传统。但是有谁知道,有时候退而求其次也需要很大的勇气。我问自己:人是不是可以平平凡凡的,快快乐乐的过得很好呢?

      我准备接收另一份平凡轻松甚至有一点底下(从中国人传统的观念)的工作。希望我能够有那样的功底,承受平凡的快乐吧。

      不论你成功了或失败了,只要你尽了你的努力,你就应该得到尊重。不要太难为你自己了。如果你也看不起你自己,试问谁会看得起你。我说,放弃是美丽的无奈,但也未必是失败吧?
      • 我准备接收另一份有一点底下(从中国人传统的观念)的工作。希望我能够有那样的功底,承受平凡的快乐吧。 Start from scratch. Not even think this way. It is hard to lower yourself down.
    • I believe you are very very close to one of the positions in the market now, you'll get one position one day in the coming weeks