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One thing I like to make it clear that I have been trying my hard to look for a job since the fourth week I landed. This week I had three interview but It was not my luck.

lostsheep03(Peaceofmind)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Right now I had too much stress from the searching a job and the relationship. I am getting sick physically and emotionally. The last time he gave me 20 dollars and I insisted on 100 but finally I returned to him since then He didn't care If I have money or not. What I am concerned is that I can spend my saving but his attitude is getting worse since he is not the man who would like to hold the responsibility for a family if the wife had no income. He even told me to move out of the place to find my own place. My question is that we are becoming enemines now. I don't want to be so weak if he treated me like this. Yes I can move out and find my place and pay my own rent? What about him? He will have nothing to do with me since I have my saving? He sponsored me over and How is he bound to his responsibility?

I am not asking money from him for the point of money, I just hate him and want him to realize the result that we separate or the result he is abusing me now...

I hope I made my self clear and get more clear replies.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下茶话 / 法律 / Anybody who knows the marriage law in Canada? Please help me out of this situation now...Thanks! -lostsheep03(Peaceofmind); 2003-12-10 {1004} (#1509339@0)
    I have been living with my husband for more than 4 months. We argued almost every week since a lot of differences between us. I feel I was abused by him emotionally and financially. The recent case is that I asked money from him and he only gave me 20 dollars for grocery. He complained that he payed for everything at home since I don't have income yet. He insisted that I can spend my own saving instead of relying on him for everything.

    My Question is :
    1. If a wife has saving(before marriage), doesn't her husband need to spend for her ? She has to rely on her own money. Right?

    2. If we have to separate finally ,he will be out of his responsibility since I have enough saving for my rent or grocery??

    3. He keep on repeating that my saving is enough to cover my expenses, so I will not go to the government assistance , therefore the government will not chase him either.

    If things go on like this, what shall I do?

    I appreciate the opinion from those who really knows the law.
    • Get a job and share the damn responsibility. -jeffrey815(Smartiecat); 2003-12-10 (#1509364@0)
    • 劝你一句“嫁汉嫁汉、穿衣吃饭”在这儿是行不通的。那个当丈夫的虽然小气些，但也没犯法，很多人婚后还都是AA制的。自己有钱为什么不花呢？要靠人施舍就该低声下气些。 -mutantx(阿吉); 2003-12-10 (#1509794@0)
    • 离婚的事你可以请教律师。4个月就离婚，又没有小孩，你自己还有存款，不认为你能得到很多抚养费（如果有的话）。如果是他担保你过来的话，3年内你从政府得到的任何补助都将由他支付。 -mutantx(阿吉); 2003-12-10 (#1509807@0)
      • One thing I like to make it clear that I have been trying my hard to look for a job since the fourth week I landed. This week I had three interview but It was not my luck. -lostsheep03(Peaceofmind); 2003-12-12 {1044} (#1511858@0)
        本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Right now I had too much stress from the searching a job and the relationship. I am getting sick physically and emotionally. The last time he gave me 20 dollars and I insisted on 100 but finally I returned to him since then He didn't care If I have money or not. What I am concerned is that I can spend my saving but his attitude is getting worse since he is not the man who would like to hold the responsibility for a family if the wife had no income. He even told me to move out of the place to find my own place. My question is that we are becoming enemines now. I don't want to be so weak if he treated me like this. Yes I can move out and find my place and pay my own rent? What about him? He will have nothing to do with me since I have my saving? He sponsored me over and How is he bound to his responsibility?

        I am not asking money from him for the point of money, I just hate him and want him to realize the result that we separate or the result he is abusing me now...

        I hope I made my self clear and get more clear replies.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
        • 不管当初你们是怎么走到一起来的，在一起了就试着多从对方的角度想想吧。别冲动，先冷静一下，退一步海阔天空。找工作是一项长期工作，可以先去学些英语什么的，还可以交些朋友。比干坐在家生闷气好。 -mutantx(阿吉); 2003-12-12 (#1512830@0)
        • 如果下决心分手，因为有他的担保，即使离婚后，3年内你从政府申请到的任何补助都最终将由他支付。抚养费的问题请请教律师，不敢乱说。 -mutantx(阿吉); 2003-12-12 (#1512844@0)
    • 法律上没有规定老公要养老婆的。两个人协商一下吧。如果你想用你以前的存款以防万一的话，和他说清楚，两人商量一下如何分担家庭的经济开销。 -dropoutinmiami(饺子-Oh, my heart); 2003-12-10 (#1509811@0)
      • 不是吧，她没收入，ＬＧ有收入，离婚或分居的话ＬＧ还是要养她的，如果去了美国那她ＬＧ更惨！ -baygirl(冰淇凌); 2003-12-11 (#1509917@0)
        • 不是还在婚姻中吗？ -dropoutinmiami(饺子-Oh, my heart); 2003-12-11 (#1509921@0)
          • 她好像说的是finally她们要是不在一起的话，另外，她ＬＧ对待她的态度是可能构成虐待的，如果她真的要控诉的话。 -baygirl(冰淇凌); 2003-12-11 (#1509924@0)
            • why girls always have to be so low-life? -jeffrey815(Smartiecat); 2003-12-11 (#1511349@0)
      • 如果法律上支持夫妻财务分开，为什么报税的时候要一起报尼？ -duck_nj(盐水鸭); 2003-12-12 (#1512776@0)
        • 并不是必须一起保税，我知道很多人都是分开报的。但如果一方收入很低或没有时，一起报可以少交税。 -mutantx(阿吉); 2003-12-12 (#1512803@0)
    • why don't you go out and look for a job ? family is built by two of you. you also should contribute yourself. -mimi888(老猫钓鱼); 2003-12-11 (#1511386@0)
    • if you have "your own saving", why don't you use it? why you just ask him to pay everything? why? -9604(眯眯眼); 2003-12-12 (#1512749@0)
      • Why THE HELL ?! -loveatxmas1(xmas); 2003-12-12 (#1512784@0)
      • 现在女的怎么都这德性啊?! -loveatxmas1(xmas); 2003-12-12 (#1512787@0)
    • 喔. 你还记得是他帮你申请来的喔. 多想想人家对你的好吧.大家都不容易的. 和他心平气和的好好谈谈, 尽量修复关系吧. 离了婚对你也会有很不好的影响... -anewgoodman(aNewGoodMan); 2003-12-12 (#1512823@0)
    • What kind of LG do you have? Chinese one or native Canadian? -multipass(easylife); 2003-12-12 (#1512837@0)
      • That's a good question. ^_* -anewgoodman(aNewGoodMan); 2003-12-13 (#1513379@0)
    • 关键是一定要公布您的姓名呀，您离了以后别再让那位兄弟有幸碰上 -vega_lee(天津の包子.NET); 2003-12-13 (#1513381@0)
    • 为了保障婚前资产，双方都去做资产公证(现在补应该也可以的)。然后合并双方资产，共同合理享用。将来万一离婚，先扣除双方婚前资产：如届时总资产减少，则按比例分配。如增加，则先扣除自己原告部分，剩余平分 -agincourt(百灵鸟); 2003-12-13 (#1513391@0)
    • "I feel I was abused by him emotionally and financially."---- and, physically. -workopolis(﹡ 枫树下のCOYOTE ﹡); 2003-12-13 (#1513394@0)
      • get of the relationship please ,but I do not think you can get any money from him. Abuse is another thing , it do not mean you can get money from him. -newcomer1(newcomer1); 2003-12-16 (#1517938@0)

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